I know sometimes it’s hard to talk about someone we have lost. But this is a space where you can share a memory of any kind with no judgment whether it’s something you wish you would’ve done, something you wish you wouldn’t have done, something you feel gratitude about with the person that has past….. and don’t forget you can include an animal passing an animals passing is just as much pain…..

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9-11-2001

When someone we love passes away there’s a sense of sadness that comes around us flooding us with emotions and memories sometimes because of the person that may have passed away we can’t express how we really feel, for myself when my father passed away I felt I needed to be strong for my Mom and especially my Son because he was the one outside of my Mom and my Siblings that I really believe was affected the most by his loss. So the reason that I wanted to create this blog with to allow people to dig in to the hurt or the special memory or whatever it may be around that person whether it’s sadness joyfulness gratitude and share what they are really truly feeling..

I am hoping that you will visit the blog often for I will have different things that I will share “stories and hopefully stories from anyone who is reading this now that is brave enough to share a piece of themselves, because you never know how something you may say can really help another person, and that’s what I’m hoping to do…..

In 2008 I lost my Dad. He was the one person that I had in my life (besides my mom)

Who never judged me.

I remember the knock on the door at 4:45AM. And that’s about it. I basically blocked what happened after completely out!

My brother came to tell me my Dad the best man I had ever known was gone.

Gone??? I still can’t say D word

It just can’t come out of my mouth

He was always there for me

He was So close with my Son

Days turned into months now years and it’s still hard.

So anyone that wants to share please do……

I am hoping my blog I am creating will help someone to just share. And get off your heart what you need to at anytime.:..

Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.

— Oscar Wilde.

This is the first post on my new blog. I’m just getting this new blog going, so stay tuned for more. Subscribe below to get notified when I post new updates.

I’m starting this blog to allow others to share in a platform where there is No judgement or shame in grieving the loss of your parent, Or spouse or child, Brother or Sister or friend whom ever you have lost and want to share your feelings..

My father passed away in 2008 and it was so difficult I felt Such sadness for a very long time, I cried I closed up emotionally and I didn’t know how to let it out without either upsetting another person.

So I decided to start this blog to share and let others share whatever they are feeling without feeling guilty or judged.

Use this space to share a memory a reminder or just a thought….